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diff --git a/mail-etiquette.md b/mail-etiquette.md deleted file mode 100644 index 5c98fbe..0000000 --- a/mail-etiquette.md +++ /dev/null @@ -1,147 +0,0 @@ ---- -layout: page -title: Email -language: en -ref: mail-etiquette ---- -I have seen many people having problem with using email, especially from my classmates. -Writing email is an important skill, and knowing how to write email properly is respecting -the recipient. - -In this article I am writing about how to write a proper mail, -my email preferences, and some technical issues related to email. -If you violate too many red flags I stated here I probably won't read your mail. - -### Contents -* Table of contents -{:toc} - -# Email Structure - -Here is a generic email structure: - - [Tag] Subject - - Greeting: Hi/Dear [name]/Sir/Madame/To whom it may concern, - - Introduction - - Elaboration - - Regards - - Signature - -## Subject - -Some people find it hard to come up with a good email subject. - -You can (and should) include a short tag to let the recipient know about the topic -before reading the whole subject line, unless they requested otherwise. - -## Greeting - -It's not a problem for most people, though I have personally received many emails without greeting. -An email is not a private message, and even for private message you probably should do a greeting -before a conversation as well. - -Note: - -- Hi/Hello is informal, so you probably should avoid it if you don't know the person. -- You could include the person's title (e.g., Dr.) if you like and the other person is comfortable, but for me personally, don't use Mr. -- Refer to the person with their preferred name. For me, this means don't use my family name[^1]. Also, don't deadname trans people. - -## Introduction - -It is necessary to introduce yourself if you and the other person don't know each other. Start with - - My name is... I am ... - I am writing this mail to ... - -If you know the person, you can just come to the reason you're writing this mail. - -## Regards and Signature - -To close an email, you should end it with: - -- Sincerely, -- Regards, -- Yours cordially, -- Best, - -... followed by your name. - -# Language - -This should go without saying, but when someone sends you an email in a language, -don't reply in another, unless you're asked to. - -## Pronoun - -Pronoun is a sensitive topic, and mispronoun someone can make [zem] -feel very uncomfortable. - -In English, this is not very a common problem, since first and second pronouns -are neutral. In other languages, such as French or German, it is not. Using "tu" -or "du/ihr" in a formal email (i.e. not with your friends) will make you look -very unprofessional. Choosing pronouns is a difficult problem in a deeper level, -since the pronouns depend on age, gender, social status, job, etc and not -just the formalness. That's why I don't like writing in Vietnamese. - -# Attachment - -This is a rather technical topic, but it's simple to follow. - -[Don't send Word documents][no-word]. Words are not only bloated and inefficient, -it also poses malware and virus threats. Of course, you wouldn't attach those, but for -safety many people including me would not take the risk. - -Instead, just include the text inside the email if it is not long, export the document -as pdf, HTML, or plain text file. - -Similarly, don't send RAR archive. RAR is a proprietary archive format, which means -free software cannot open it. Please use an open format like ZIP instead, or better yet, -just attach individual files in the email - I can preview without download that way. - -# Send in plain text - -This is a rather technical topic, but it's simple to follow. -I'm not dictating which format you should use when emailing someone else, but please do -this when you send me an email. - -HTML text is preferred by marketers, since they can embed bloated images and GIFs in the -email, which can assist their intended purpose. - -However, I recommend writing mails only in plain text for following reason: - -- HTML allows phishing -- HTML makes tracking possible, which doesn't respect recipient's privacy -- HTML emails are less accessible (I will make a post about accessibility and link here) - -In fact, many mail clients only display plain text and not HTML. On the other hand, all -mail clients can display plain text. -Many mailing list blocks HTML. HTML is for the web, which email is not[^2]. - -Read [this page][useplaintext] to see how to write mail in plain text file. - -## What if I want to include an image? - -Attach it as a file and refer to that. - -## Links are usually long and I'm afraid it can be disruptive - -You can use reference, like this: - - Please read the post [1] for more information. - ... - - [1]: https://example.org/this-link-is-long-and-disruptive - -[^1]: I would say it's the same for all other Vietnamese people. Vietnamese people currently has quite few family name, -and most of them are "Nguyễn", therefore we never refer to one another as family name. This could be different for other Asian culture, -e.g. Chinese or Japanese people may use family name in formal situation. -[^2]: They work on entirely different protocols, with different formats. - -[useplaintext]: https://useplaintext.email -[zem]: /menglish.html -[no-word]: https://www.gnu.org/philosophy/no-word-attachments.html |